Mpactful Messages: The ”Let’s Talk About It” Podcast

Leadership is about empathy...

What does empathy really look like in leadership…and why does it matter more than ever right now?
This week on Mpactful Messages: The Let’s Talk About It Podcast, Mayce DelValle and Missy Washam welcome special guest Ashley King for a thoughtful conversation inspired by this powerful quote from Oprah Winfrey:
“Leadership is about empathy. It is about having the ability to relate to and connect with people for the purpose of inspiring and empowering their lives.”
Together, they talk about what empathy looks like in action, why many leaders value it but struggle to practice it consistently, and how connection, performance, and wellbeing are deeply intertwined. Ashley shares insights from her work with leaders across industries, along with personal perspective shaped by serious health challenges that reshaped how she views leadership, presence, priorities, and people.
This episode explores the tension leaders often feel between holding high standards and leading with empathy…and why the two are not opposites. The conversation digs into common mistakes leaders make when trying to connect, how empathy influences both employee experience and customer experience, and why empathy is often misunderstood as soft rather than skilled.
The takeaway is clear: empathy does not lower expectations. It raises trust. When people feel seen, heard, and valued, they take more ownership, perform at a higher level, and stay engaged longer. Empathy is not about fixing feelings…it’s about creating environments where people can do their best work.
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Books by Mayce and Missy:Unstoppable, A 40-Day Devotional for Women to Lead with Confidence and Purpose: https://unstoppabledevo.comANDBuilt to Lead, A 40-Day Devotional for Hard-Working Leaders: https://builttoleadbook.com
Click here to watch the short video to learn about Leadership Collective, the exclusive 12-week coaching program offered by Mayce and Missy.
Credits:Mpactful Messages: The Let’s Talk About It Podcast is hosted by Mayce DelValle (@maycedelvalle) and Missy Washam (@missywasham).Special Guest: Ashley King (https://www.linkedin.com/in/ashleyelayneking/)Edited by Brandon Manzano.

A great leader inspires people to have confidence in themselves.

What if the real measure of your leadership isn’t how confident people are in you… but how confident they become in themselves?
This week on Mpactful Messages: The Let’s Talk About It Podcast, Mayce DelValle and Missy Washam are joined by Damian Marquez for a conversation centered around the quote: “A good leader inspires people to have confidence in the leader; a great leader inspires people to have confidence in themselves.”
In this episode, the conversation focuses on what it truly means to develop people, not just manage them. Together, they talk about building confidence in others, recognizing potential before someone sees it themselves, and the role belief plays in shaping strong, resilient teams.
This discussion explores confidence from both sides of leadership… how leaders grow their own confidence and how they intentionally pour into others so belief multiplies beyond them. It’s a reminder that great leadership is not about creating followers, but about developing future leaders who trust themselves and step into their strengths.
If you care about leaving a legacy that lasts beyond your role or title, this episode offers perspective, encouragement, and practical insight into how confidence becomes contagious.
Follow and connect with Mpactful Messages:Website: www.mpactfulmessages.comLinkedIn: Mpactful MessagesInstagram: @mpactful_messagesEmail: connect@mpactfulmessages.comJoin the community: www.inspiredpeopleinspirepeople.comSubscribe to the newsletter: www.mmleadershipnews.com
Books by Mayce and Missy:Unstoppable, A 40-Day Devotional for Women to Lead with Confidence and Purpose: https://unstoppabledevo.comANDBuilt to Lead, A 40-Day Devotional for Hard-Working Leaders: https://builttoleadbook.com
Click here to watch the short video to learn about Leadership Collective, the exclusive 12-week coaching program offered by Mayce and Missy: 
Credits:Mpactful Messages: The Let’s Talk About It Podcast is hosted by Mayce DelValle (@maycedelvalle) and Missy Washam (@missywasham).Special Guest: Damian Marquez (http://www.threestronglife.com)Edited by Brandon Manzano.

Season 2 Kick Off - Together we can do great things.

What becomes possible when leaders stop trying to do everything alone?
This week on Mpactful Messages: The Let’s Talk About It Podcast, Mayce DelValle and Missy Washam celebrate one year of the podcast and kick off a new season with a conversation that sits at the heart of their work and their relationship… partnership.
Inspired by the quote, “I can do things you cannot, you can do things I cannot; together we can do great things,” this episode is an honest, behind-the-scenes look at what true partnership really requires. Mayce and Missy talk about shared ownership versus shared tasks, why the myth of 50/50 leadership often fails, and how trust, communication, and complementary strengths accelerate growth.
This conversation is for leaders who feel the weight of doing it all, for teams struggling to collaborate well, and for anyone who wants to lead in a way that reduces burnout and increases momentum. It’s a reminder that leadership is not about proving how much you can handle on your own… it’s about building something stronger together.
If you’re entering a new season and rethinking how you lead, collaborate, and ask for help, this episode is a powerful place to start.
Follow and connect with Mpactful Messages:Website: www.mpactfulmessages.comLinkedIn: Mpactful MessagesInstagram: @mpactful_messagesEmail: connect@mpactfulmessages.comJoin the community: www.inspiredpeopleinspirepeople.comSubscribe to the newsletter: www.mmleadershipnews.com
Books by Mayce and Missy:Unstoppable, A 40-Day Devotional for Women to Lead with Confidence and Purpose: https://unstoppabledevo.comANDBuilt to Lead, A 40-Day Devotional for Hard-Working Leaders: https://builttoleadbook.com
LEADERSHIP COLLECTIVEAs we kick off the new year, we’re opening enrollment for our next Leadership Collective cohort.
Leadership Collective is a 12-week leadership development program designed for managers in high-stress roles who are tired of doing everyone else’s job. If you find yourself repeating expectations, fixing preventable mistakes, or feeling like your team can’t function without you, this program shows you how to take back control of your team and your time.
Inside the Collective, we focus on practical leadership tools that immediately improve communication, lock in accountability, and increase productivity and profit. Instead of chasing people and putting out fires, you’ll learn how to build a team that owns their work, executes consistently, and delivers results without constant micromanagement.
This isn’t theory. There’s no fluff. It’s real leadership development with real application… designed to help you lead with confidence, hit your goals, and step out of constant overwhelm while still driving performance.
Our next cohort begins January 26, 2026, and enrollment closes January 23, 2026.If you’re ready to lead differently this year and stop carrying the weight alone, this may be the right next step. Learn More about it here: https://mpactfulmessages.com/leadershipcollective/
Credits:Mpactful Messages: The Let’s Talk About It Podcast is hosted by Mayce DelValle (@maycedelvalle) and Missy Washam (@missywasham).Edited by Brandon Manzano.

Motivation comes from appreciation. Reprise.

Are your people truly motivated, or just meeting expectations?
For the last episode before the new year, it seems appropriate to talk about motivation.  This week listeners get a Fan Favorite Reprise on Mpactful Messages: The Let’s Talk About It Podcast, hosts Mayce DelValle and Missy Washam sit down with growth and development coach, Kiki Clarke, to unpack the idea that "Motivation comes from appreciation, not expectation."
Together, they explore how leaders can create environments where people feel valued rather than pressured. Through real-world examples and thoughtful discussion, they examine the difference between expecting results and inspiring excellence, offering practical ways to build a culture where appreciation fuels motivation.
Whether you’re leading a team, running a business, or striving for personal growth, this episode will challenge you to rethink how you inspire those around you.
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Credits:Mpactful Messages: The Let’s Talk About It Podcast is hosted by Mayce DelValle (@maycedelvalle) and Missy Washam(@missywasham).Special Guest: Kiki Clarke (Insta: @kiki_clarke3, YouTube: @kikiclarke Email: kiki@keystovibrant.com)Edited by: Brandon Manzano

Passion doesn't need an alarm clock. Reprise.

What gets you out of bed in the morning—an alarm clock or your passion?
For Christmas week on Mpactful Messages: The Let’s Talk About It Podcast, you will get the opportunity to hear a fan favorite reprise as hosts Mayce DelValle and Missy Washam sit down with leadership expert Scott Fay, author of "Discover Your Sweet Spot: The 7 Steps to Create a Life of Success and Significance" for an inspiring conversation centered around the quote: "Passion doesn't need an alarm clock.."—Eric Thomas.
Scott, a successful entrepreneur and leadership coach shares how discovering and aligning with your passion can transform not just your career but your entire life. He opens up about his own journey of personal growth, leadership, and how passion fuels perseverance. Whether you’re looking to reignite your own motivation or help others do the same, this episode will challenge you to rethink what truly drives success.
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Credits:Mpactful Messages: The Let’s Talk About It Podcast is hosted by Mayce DelValle (@maycedelvalle) and Missy Washam (@missywasham).Special Guest: Scott Fay – Author of "Discover Your Sweet Spot: The 7 Steps to Create a Life of Success and Significance" Available on AmazonEdited by: Brandon Manzano

The only difference between stepping stones and stumbling blocks is how you use them.

What if the way you respond to challenges matters more than the challenges themselves?
This week on Mpactful Messages: The Let’s Talk About It Podcast, Mayce DelValle and Missy Washam are joined by Kaylee Felio to unpack the quote: “The only difference between stepping stones and stumbling blocks is how you use them.”
Every leader encounters moments that feel frustrating, unexpected, or uncertain. In this episode, the conversation centers on perspective and choice. Together, they talk about how leaders can shift from reacting to what gets in the way to using it as a catalyst for growth and forward movement.
This discussion is a reminder that leadership is not defined by what happens to you, but by how you respond when things do not go according to plan. It invites leaders to reflect on mindset, resilience, and the decisions that turn moments of difficulty into progress.
If you’re navigating change, feeling stuck, or simply looking for a fresh leadership perspective, this episode offers encouragement and a practical way to rethink what’s standing in your path.
Follow and connect with Mpactful Messages:Website: www.mpactfulmessages.comLinkedIn: Mpactful MessagesInstagram: @mpactful_messagesEmail: connect@mpactfulmessages.comJoin the community: www.inspiredpeopleinspirepeople.comSubscribe to the newsletter: www.mmleadershipnews.com
Books by Mayce and Missy:Unstoppable, A 40-Day Devotional for Women to Lead with Confidence and Purpose: https://unstoppabledevo.comANDBuilt to Lead, A 40-Day Devotional for Hard-Working Leaders: https://builttoleadbook.com
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Credits:Mpactful Messages: The Let’s Talk About It Podcast is hosted by Mayce DelValle (@maycedelvalle) and Missy Washam (@missywasham).Special Guest: Kaylee Felio (https://www.linkedin.com/in/kayleefelio/)Edited by Brandon Manzano.

Champions behave like champions long before they become champions.

What does it take to show up like a champion long before the win ever arrives?
This week on Mpactful Messages: The Let’s Talk About It Podcast, Mayce DelValle and Missy Washam sit down with Dr. Austyn Yarborough to explore the quote: “Champions behave like champions long before they become champions.” (Bill Walsh)
Austyn’s journey from competitive gymnast to health coach gives a powerful look at what it means to build discipline long before life demands it. She shares how early habits shaped her resilience, how she learned to lead herself through health battles, and why consistency matters more than motivation. Together, they unpack what champion behavior looks like in real life... the habits nobody sees, the choices that build strength, and the mindset that carries you through seasons when your body or circumstances feel out of control.
Whether you lead in the workplace, in your home, or in your own health, this conversation will remind you that greatness is built in the quiet daily decisions that align with who you want to become.
Follow and connect with Mpactful Messages:Website: www.mpactfulmessages.comLinkedIn: Mpactful MessagesInstagram: @mpactful_messagesEmail: connect@mpactfulmessages.comJoin the community: www.inspiredpeopleinspirepeople.comSubscribe to the newsletter: www.mmleadershipnews.comBooks by Mayce and Missy: Unstoppable, A 40-Day Devotional for Women to Lead with Confidence and Purpose — www.unstoppabledevo.com AND Built to Lead, A 40-Day Devotional for Hard-Working Leaders — www.builttoleadbook.comManager’s Reset Guide: www.manager-reset.com
Credits:Mpactful Messages: The Let’s Talk About It Podcast is hosted by Mayce DelValle (@maycedelvalle) and Missy Washam (@missywasham).Special Guest: Dr. Austyn Yarborough (draustynyarbrough@gmail.com or https://www.instagram.com/thedetoxdocs/)Edited by Brandon Manzano.

Impact isn’t a role, it’s who you decide to be in every moment.

What does it look like to lead well in the everyday moments that rarely get attention?
This week on Mpactful Messages: The Let’s Talk About It Podcast, Mayce DelValle and Missy Washam sit down with rancher, speaker, and coach Calli Thorne to unpack the quote: “Impact isn’t a role, it’s who you decide to be in every moment.”
Calli shares how her life on the ranch shaped her leadership, what switching hats across multiple businesses has taught her, and how her faith guides her daily decisions. They talk about the small choices that build trust, the moments that revealed who she was becoming, and why impact is less about the title you carry and more about the consistency you bring.
If you want to lead with clarity, character, and confidence in every area of your life, this conversation will encourage you to show up with intention in every space you walk into.
Follow and connect with Mpactful Messages:Website: www.mpactfulmessages.comLinkedIn: Mpactful MessagesInstagram: @mpactful_messagesEmail: connect@mpactfulmessages.comJoin the community: www.inspiredpeopleinspirepeople.comSubscribe to the newsletter: www.mmleadershipnews.comBooks by Mayce and Missy: Unstoppable, A 40-Day Devotional for Women to Lead with Confidence and Purpose at https://unstoppabledevo.com and Built to Lead, A 40-Day Devotional for Hard-Working Leaders at https://builttoleadbook.comManager’s Reset Guide: www.manager-reset.com
Credits:Mpactful Messages: The Let’s Talk About It Podcast is hosted by Mayce DelValle (@maycedelvalle) and Missy Washam (@missywasham).Special Guest: Calli Thorne (https://www.facebook.com/calli.thorne  https://www.linkedin.com/in/callithorne/ https://www.instagram.com/callithorne/ https://www.instagram.com/yellowstoneriverbeef/)Edited by Brandon Manzano.

If you don’t like where you are, move. You are not a tree.

What does it take to let go of what’s good in order to step into what’s next?
For Thanksgiving Week, we’re bringing back one of our absolute fan favorites on Mpactful Messages: The Let’s Talk About It Podcast. In this powerful replay, Mayce DelValle and Missy Washam sit down with Trip and Rebecca Healey, a couple whose leadership journey has inspired so many of our listeners.
After years of pastoring, planting a church, and leading in ministry, Trip and Rebecca made a courageous decision to follow God’s prompting and step into a new chapter. Anchored in the quote “If you don’t like where you are, move. You are not a tree.” this conversation unpacks what it means to listen to the nudge, release what’s familiar, and move toward the life you’re called to live.
Whether you're contemplating a shift, sensing a transition ahead, or simply need a reminder that obedience often opens the door to clarity, this replay brings timeless encouragement for the season.
Follow and Connect with Mpactful Messages:Website: www.mpactfulmessages.comLinkedIn: Mpactful MessagesInstagram: @mpactful_messagesEmail: connect@mpactfulmessages.comJoin our community: www.inspiredpeopleinspirepeople.comSign up for our weekly newsletter: www.mmleadershipnews.com
Credits:Mpactful Messages: The Let’s Talk About It Podcast is hosted by Mayce DelValle (@maycedelvalle) and Missy Washam (@missywasham).Special Guests: Trip Healey (@thecamopreacher) and Rebecca Healey (@thecamowife)Edited by: Brandon Manzano.

Don’t tell people how to do things, tell them what to do and let them surprise you...

What happens when you stop telling people how to do the work and start trusting them to rise to it?
This week on Mpactful Messages: The Let’s Talk About It Podcast, Mayce DelValle and Missy Washam sit down with author, coach, and podcaster Karin Freeland to explore the quote: “Don’t tell people how to do things, tell them what to do and let them surprise you with their results.”
Karin shares how empowerment, trust, and releasing control shaped her own reinvention journey and the women she now helps step into purpose. Together, they dig into why so many leaders say they want empowered teams but still struggle to let go of the how. From shifting control to courage, to slowing down long enough to develop people, this conversation challenges leaders to rethink the way they delegate, develop, and trust.
If you are ready to grow your people, strengthen your leadership, and finally stop carrying everything alone, this episode will speak straight to you.
Follow and connect with Mpactful Messages:Website: www.mpactfulmessages.comLinkedIn: Mpactful MessagesInstagram: @mpactful_messagesEmail: connect@mpactfulmessages.comJoin the community: www.inspiredpeopleinspirepeople.comSubscribe to the newsletter: www.mmleadershipnews.comBooks by Mayce and Missy: Unstoppable, A 40-Day Devotional for Women to Lead with Confidence and Purpose — unstoppabledevo.com AND Built to Lead, A 40-Day Devotional for Hard-Working Leaders — builttoleadbook.comManager’s Reset Guide: www.manager-reset.com
Credits:Mpactful Messages: The Let’s Talk About It Podcast is hosted by Mayce DelValle (@maycedelvalle) and Missy Washam (@missywasham).Special Guest: Karin Freeland (https://www.linkedin.com/in/karinfreelandaviles/)Edited by Brandon Manzano.